All White

Hello, my name is Henry ( I go by Hank G).  I’m a twice-divorced man and now remarried to an amazing woman (Monique) since February 20, 2016.  I am a father of four beautiful children. The first three from my ex-wife of fifteen years, and the fourth from my new marriage.  I consider myself as an empathetic realist.  To me that means I must tell the truth at all cost, but the key is to tell it in love.  This has not always been the case for me. Sugar-coating was my specialty in times past.  I didn’t want to hurt anyone, even at my own expense.  That led to people in turn consistently being hurt by me.  Imagine that, right?!  I never really knew what I wanted, therefore commitment was not in my vocabulary. It took a few major break-ups to cause me to see, hear and finally respond to the truth that lied deep within my heart.  Here I am today, whole (and growing) and living my best life trying to help others “come up” while seeing the importance of the “dark place” we all have to journey through at some point in our lives.  One of the many great things I was fortunate enough to experience was to cross paths with some great people along the way; all with their own set of unique gifts and a willingness to share their wonderfully full lives, harsh truths, passionate beliefs, thoughtful advice and most importantly their kind hearts. I’m better because of them.  Thank you. You know who you are.  My life motto is to “Keep pressing…it gets better”.  That old saying, “what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger is painfully true.”  The goal is to get stronger and learn, so we don’t have to keep repeating the painful process.  That said, bloom where you are planted and enjoy the journey.

Hank G